Sometimes, as men, we wrestle with priorities. However, don’t take any of them for granted. That’s why all the moments you have now are important and should be treasured.

One of the most important lessons on fatherhood you can learn is your children will grow up quickly. While you will always be a parent to your children, you will not always be parenting. “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” - Genesis 2:24 You only have them briefly, so make it count. This will require sacrifice, but as your children get older, these are the things they will never forget. Part of that is making your children a priority and showing up for the moments in their life. While I can’t be like God, I can be present in my children’s life, and so can you. His being with us gives us confidence that everything will be okay. The one thing God reassures us time after time is his presence. Children are not looking for perfect fathers children are looking for present fathers. Being present means you are available, actively involved, and not just a passive onlooker. This is true for you as a father in your children’s life. What I have learned from God’s example as a father is how important it is to be present in the life of my children.

In short, I am going to be present in your life. God has declared that wherever you go, I will be there for you.

One lesson that comes from God is the promise of his presence. Therefore, we can learn the greatest lessons on fatherhood in the Bible by looking at how our heavenly father treats us. The greatest example of fatherhood in the Bible is our heavenly father. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you he will never leave you nor forsake you.” - Deuteronomy 31:6 You don’t have to be a perfect father, but you must be a present father. The road you choose to take is all up to you.ģ. Remember, you have the potential to inspire your child to greatness or hinder them from becoming great. This does not mean you don’t discipline when necessary, but you do it to improve your children and not release your frustration. As fathers, it is okay to admit when you are wrong. However, it is how you use those mistakes that can either inspire or hinder your child. Your children are going to make mistakes, and so will you. As a teacher, you should not be a disciplinarian but an encourager and a motivator. While you want to teach, how you teach is equally important. ” Colossians 3:21 AMPĪs a father, you play a major role in developing your child’s confidence. “Fathers, do not provoke or irritate or exasperate your children, so they will not lose heart and become discouraged or unmotivated. You can be your child’s greatest inspiration or greatest hindrance. Always remember your children are watching, and while you may not have as many opportunities, make sure you set the right example when you do. While your children’s mother may not live under your roof, you should still show her the same kind of love. Love means you are responsible for the household and take care of those under your roof.įor single or divorced fathers, nothing changes. Your love for them will help them see that love does not come with conditions, nor is it selfish. If you are a father with daughters, how you love them and their mother will help define love and how it looks and feels. How you love your wife will not only affect her but also your children as well. When you recognize that, then this can help you learn one of the greatest lessons on fatherhood. In your home, your wife is not just your wife. If you are married, you must show your wife genuine love. You are probably wondering if we are talking about fathers, why am I bringing up husbands? This verse highlights one of the father's most important roles in the household. “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” - Ephesians 5:25 You are setting an example that will follow your kids. So, as we take a moment to celebrate fathers, I want to share with you four lessons on fatherhood in the Bible and pray they will be an encouragement to you. While Father’s Day doesn’t get the same amount of fanfare as Mother’s Day, we know your role as a father is critical in your children's lives. It has not always been easy, but I would not exchange it for anything in this world. For the past nineteen years, one of the greatest joys of my life has been raising my children. As Father’s Day approaches, it is a great time to reflect on being a father.

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